Culling my f'list
As a result of a total panic caused by ‘LJ’s new styles’ meeting ‘LJ’s New Year problems’ (January 2013) just as I was trying to look something up, I decided to cull my lists of friends and comms. Obviously the comms won’t care...
If you’re reading this and find yourself defriended, it is not personal! I need to get my f’list down to a more reasonable size and the criteria I have used are as follows:
If I normally communicate with you on Dreamwidth, Blogger or other platforms and our LJ friending is merely ‘historical’, I’ve defriended you. I can’t think why you’d want to be reinstated, but do ask. I have been just filtering out duplicate posts from you, but I think the time has come to jump off the fence! I haven’t defriended anyone who merely has a placeholder account on Dreamwidth and doesn’t post/comment there.
If I really haven’t communicated with you for absolutely ages on any platform, or if we friended each other for fandom reasons and have never communicated since, then I’ve defriended you - but feel free to ask to be re-instated! I just don’t see the point of having virtual strangers around. This might apply to one or two Connotations people - not that I don’t love you all but in some cases we never talk online! If you enjoy e.g. my f'locked posts about Portugal, by all means come back!
If you have two journals - maybe a personal one and an author one, or a personal one and a muse one - I’ve defriended one of them on the assumption that I can always check via the one I’ve kept on my f’list. Feel free to argue.
If I’m under the impression that you have left LJ, either because your name appears to be crossed out or you haven’t posted in years, I have defriended you. Feel free to correct me.
My usual posting method is to post on Dreamwidth and crosspost to LJ. Just occasionally I might post on LJ only, e.g. for a birthday when I know the person is just on LJ, or with an LJ problem such as the one that sparked this culling. Most of my posts on both sites are friends-only. I’ve left this one unlocked for obvious reasons and have only posted it on LJ as a sticky post.
If you’re reading this and find yourself defriended, it is not personal! I need to get my f’list down to a more reasonable size and the criteria I have used are as follows:
If I normally communicate with you on Dreamwidth, Blogger or other platforms and our LJ friending is merely ‘historical’, I’ve defriended you. I can’t think why you’d want to be reinstated, but do ask. I have been just filtering out duplicate posts from you, but I think the time has come to jump off the fence! I haven’t defriended anyone who merely has a placeholder account on Dreamwidth and doesn’t post/comment there.
If I really haven’t communicated with you for absolutely ages on any platform, or if we friended each other for fandom reasons and have never communicated since, then I’ve defriended you - but feel free to ask to be re-instated! I just don’t see the point of having virtual strangers around. This might apply to one or two Connotations people - not that I don’t love you all but in some cases we never talk online! If you enjoy e.g. my f'locked posts about Portugal, by all means come back!
If you have two journals - maybe a personal one and an author one, or a personal one and a muse one - I’ve defriended one of them on the assumption that I can always check via the one I’ve kept on my f’list. Feel free to argue.
If I’m under the impression that you have left LJ, either because your name appears to be crossed out or you haven’t posted in years, I have defriended you. Feel free to correct me.
My usual posting method is to post on Dreamwidth and crosspost to LJ. Just occasionally I might post on LJ only, e.g. for a birthday when I know the person is just on LJ, or with an LJ problem such as the one that sparked this culling. Most of my posts on both sites are friends-only. I’ve left this one unlocked for obvious reasons and have only posted it on LJ as a sticky post.

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